{"id":534,"date":"2015-01-27T00:08:50","date_gmt":"2015-01-27T00:08:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/?p=534"},"modified":"2016-01-06T13:37:07","modified_gmt":"2016-01-06T13:37:07","slug":"why-a-conversation-drains-our-energy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/why-a-conversation-drains-our-energy\/","title":{"rendered":"Why a Conversation drains our Energy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Many times in our life we come across to this feeling <a href=\"http:\/\/bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/articles-related-to-spirituality\/what-is-attachment.html\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cATTACHMENT&#8221;<\/a> but due to <strong>lack of awareness<\/strong> we fail to understand the intensity of it. <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Attachment isn&#8217;t really doing any kind of good to us, because it get us involved in Karm Bandhan. Attachments indirectly gets us connected with our love or known ones , Eg: Our kids, Family,Friend foes, acquaintance, colleagues \u00a0etc \u00a0and their related things knowingly or unknowingly.<strong> Because of Attachment we take everything as personal thing.<\/strong> When things become personal we are bound to bear its results. This is applicable to every kind of activity we do.<\/p>\n<p>When there is any kind of <strong>discussion or conversation or dialogue<\/strong>\u00a0occurs with any of our dear ones or known ones , we happened to share our views to them. Most of the\u00a0times due to lack of awareness we end up <strong>expecting them to respect or accept our views<\/strong> which doesn&#8217;t really happens . \u00a0Because<strong> we are two different souls<\/strong>, where none of us is awaken and we end up feeling disappointed and angry, which indirectly<strong> drains our positive energy<\/strong>. This happens because when one is not agreeing to our points we become more intense and focus to explain our point. Our focus and intensity diverts all the energy to our words. Disappointment comes because of the Ego part in Attachment , that the person next to you must <strong>understand about the right thing which YOU ARE SAYING.<\/strong> From this point conversation becomes a tool through which our energy gets drained and <strong>brings NO Result<\/strong>. After these kind of discussion or dialogue we feel restless and exhausted.<\/p>\n<p>Now in the other hand let\u2019s assume that you are in the similar situation and even aware of it that the other person isn&#8217;t really receptive enough for your advice but still you share your point of view without any kind of expectation. Does this creates any kind of energy loss? YES, it does. Apparently you get connected to your dear one&#8217;s energy because of love or want to explain something. By this way you indirectly end up exchanging your positive energy with their restless or current feeling and after sometime you start experiencing the similar feeling but in the other hand your dear ones suddenly starts understanding the situation minute later because of receiving your positive energy, leaving you exhausted.<br \/>\nThis clears one thing that<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/articles-related-to-spirituality\/concept-of-energy-in-spirituality.html\" target=\"_blank\"> trade of energy<\/a> is possible but in this process you loose your positive energy and gain others negative or restless energies<\/strong> which may not be good for your sadhana, so it is important to avoid unnecessary discussion for a sadhak so that he\/she doesn&#8217;t waste their energy on such issues.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>What is the way to<strong> STOP<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/urja-ka-hastanantaran-part-1\"> energy exchange<\/a><\/strong> during discussion? Answer is the <strong>DETACHMENT. <\/strong>During conversation one should not do it because of love, anger, greed , attachment or ego. \u00a0Suggestions or exchange of views when done without these ailments bring better , impactful and long lasting results. But this demands<strong> PRACTICE with AWARENESS<\/strong> under Guru&#8217;s Guidance.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>By : KHUSHI\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Related Articles on Energy &#8211;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/articles-related-to-spirituality\/concept-of-energy-in-spirituality.html\" target=\"_blank\">Concept of ENERGY in spirituality<\/a><span style=\"color: #555555;\">, <span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/transfer-of-energy-part-1\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Basics of\u00a0Transfer of Energy<\/span><\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/http\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/transfer-of-energy-part-1\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">How energy is transferred<\/span><\/a><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">,<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/http\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/transfer-of-energy-part-2\">Transfer of Negative energy<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">,\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #1ca0bd;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/transfer-of-energy-part-2\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Transfer of Positive or Negative form of Energy<\/span><\/a>\u00a0,<\/span><span style=\"color: #555555;\">\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/http\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/transfer-of-energy-part-3\">Transfer of Energy in known or unknown stage<\/a><span style=\"color: #555555;\">,\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/quotations\/conserve-energy\"><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">How to Conserve Energy<\/span><\/a>\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #555555;\">or<\/span><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\"><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/how-to-store-spiritual-energy\" target=\"_blank\">\u00a0Store Energy<\/a>,\u00a0<\/span><strong style=\"color: #555555;\">Energy Exchange<\/strong><span style=\"color: #555555;\">-Different Aspect \u2013\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/energy-exchange-different-aspect-part-1\" target=\"_blank\">Part 1\u00a0<\/a><span style=\"color: #555555;\">,\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/energy-exchange-different-aspect-part-2\" target=\"_blank\">Part 2<\/a><span style=\"color: #555555;\">,\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/energy-exchange-different-aspect-part-3\" target=\"_blank\">Part 3<\/a><span style=\"color: #555555;\">,<\/span><a style=\"color: #dd5137;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bagulamukhijyotishtantra.com\/blog\/wisdom\/energy-exchange-different-aspect-part-4\" target=\"_blank\">\u00a0Part 4<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; 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